"The culturally established “no means no” is too low a bar. Only yes means yes. And I’m not talking about an “I guess we could…” or an “I don’t really care….” or an “Only if you really want to….” or a “Might as well…” I’m talking about an enthusiastic, excited, sustained “Yes!” Are those “yesses” less frequent than the non-committal, hesitant “not-nos?” Yeah, they are, but it’s worth it to know that the people you’re fooling around with really want to fool around with you, too."
Slut Walk Jakarta!!!
“Indonesian women stage a protest wearing miniskirts at Jakarta’s central roundabout on September 18, 2011 to denounce remarks made by Jakarta city Governor Fauzi Bowo who blamed a recent gang rape on the victim’s choice of clothing. Fauzi Bowo called on women on September 16 not to wear miniskirts when riding on public transport in the capital after a 27-year-old woman was attacked in a public minivan early this month.”
“My body is not porn, instead it’s your dirty mind.”
The women “protested for more protection for women and better aid for sexual assault victims.”
"People don’t need an ideologically superior sexual act, they need to be able to communicate and give each other the greatest pleasure they can while respecting their own and their partners boundaries. What erotic act that actually translates out to is entirely up to the people involved."