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(con)sensual is a dynamic, sex-positive campaign about enthusiastic consent. The campaign works to create safe spaces for dialogue on consent, educate college students about consent and their sexual rights, and encourage young people to integrate consent into their sexual practices. We love sex, and we love you. We live online here and on Twitter. (Our website is on the way.)

(con)sensual currently lives at American University in Washington, DC, where it was founded in 2009. The campaign will be available to all campuses nationwide within the year.

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    The "Accidental" Rapist: the importance of clear-cut consent →

    Too many play what I call the stoplight game. Traffic signals, of course, have three colors: red for stop, yellow for caution, green for go. Good drivers are taught to stop on “red,” which functions as a “no.” But of course, even at the busiest urban intersections, no light stays red indefinitely. If you wait long enough at a stoplight, every red will become green. And when all we do is teach young men that “no means stop” when it comes to sexual boundaries, we often send them the message that if they just wait long enough (or pester, push, nag, beg, play passive-aggressive games) they’ll get the “green light” they’re so hungry for.

    (Source: treesong, via goodconsentrules)

    — 2 months ago with 74 notes
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      Welcome, welcome, come on in. I trust you enjoyed the women’s issues and rape discussion, so here we are to another...
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    8. hitmeagaintubesock reblogged this from fuckyeahsexeducation and added:
      Consent is such a touchy subject. It’s important to no only teach young girls notions like “they don’t have to have sex...
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    10. denyinghipster reblogged this from cloneboy and added:
      something I try to explain to friends, but some of them just don’t get it….I’ll keep trying, however. And I’ll keep...
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      Yes, too many men think that as long as they get an okay, even if they have nagged, thrown a fit, witheld affection, or...
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      And not just men.
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      Such a great article. Here are some quotes I enjoyed: “…I’d felt rage thinking about all of those cruel assholes who...
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      *adds this to my reblogging spree*
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    38. wickedlilthing reblogged this from consensual and added:
      This. Very much this. Especially the passive-aggressive games part which people don’t usually address.
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