October 2011
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thesavagesalad: Sex Toy Care and Cleaning Guide I guess the reason why I’m posting there seems to be little info on this kinda stuff despite the fact that plenty of folks who follow me and who I follow use sex toys. It’s worth while sharing info and most of all it’s important to be safe when doing what ever gets you to reach the big O
Oct 1st
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September 2011
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Sep 30th
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xdixon: last night i had a dream about consent it was awesome 
Sep 30th
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Sex Tips for Girls on Girls, Ladies on Ladies,...
dangertits: Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before I Started Getting Down I know that there are lots of really shitty portrayals of dynamics between hetero couples in the media. I would really love it if we could just see people talking about sex in a relaxed way, and talking during sex would be even better. What the mainstream media gives us is this toxic shit and we are left with the...
Sep 30th
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Sex Positivity at Queeriot 2011
bonesofbirch: While I was at the Queeriot event in Kingston this July I had the opportunity of going to a workshop on sex positivity, it’s main discourse was on deconstructing our notions of sex due to the ingrained Christian, heterosexual, gendered, monogamous and vanilla (CHGMV) beliefs of sex. Here are some key points and notes.
  Sex can be defined as: sexual intimate involvement with...
Sep 29th
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“The only person you can have sex with whenever you want is yourself.”
– Me, tonight at a discussion I led at my school on respect, consent, and boundaries (via mylifeasafeminista)
Sep 29th
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Reflections on last night's workshop, "Consent,...
mylifeasafeminista: (tw: mention of sexual assault) Last night, I hosted an event on my college campus called “Respect, Consent, and Boundaries.”  My school only has approximately 350 students, so I was expecting a crowd of about 20 people.  Much to my surprise, nearly 70 people showed up!  That’s about 20 percent of the campus!!! A friend and I started the conversation with some brief points,...
Sep 29th
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Sep 28th
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“I have this muscle memory of distrust. My first instinct is to pull away; it’s...”
– Shannon Perez-Darby, from Queers, Kissing, and Accountability in Learning Good Consent (via likealinoleumfloor)
Sep 28th
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Sep 28th
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Sep 27th
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As it turns out, nothing is more likely to GET my...
resurrecttheliving: It’s contradictory, but there’s something to it.
Sep 27th
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Sep 27th
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“I believe that consent consists of wanting to have sex or do another activity....”
– Holly Pervocracy on Rape Culture and consent (via kangofu-cb)
Sep 26th
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Sep 26th
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Consent Comics
candyforthedead:
Sep 26th
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“When you get a little too drunk and flip a pong table, you might piss off some...”
– TheDartmouth.com: I wrote this at 3 a.m. (via denyinghipster)
Sep 25th
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Sep 25th
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Sep 25th
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just googled cunnilingus
cryhigh: its not a cloud
Sep 24th
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Sep 24th
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Sep 24th
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Sep 23rd
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Sep 23rd
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Dear Facebook - Take A Stand Against Rape Culture! →
whereisyourline: The following are actual pages on Facebook:  ”Raping your mates girlfriend to see if she can put up a fight”, “Kicking Sluts in the Vagina,” “I know a silly little bitch that needs a good slap,” and “Riding your Girlfriend softly, Cause you dont want to wake her up.” These clearly are in violation of Facebook’s own policies and need to be removed!
Sep 23rd
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Feminism is for Lovers: Slut Walk Calendar!  →
feminismisforlovers: SlutWalk Baltimore, MD SEPTEMBER 23rd Facebook page here. Sluts & Allies Unite! twitter: @SlutwalkBalt tumblr slutwalkbaltimore@gmail.com + SlutWalk Ithaca, NY SEPTEMBER 24th Facebook invite here. Sluts & Allies unite! twitter: @SlutWalkIthaca slutwalkithaca@gmail.com +
Sep 22nd
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Sep 22nd
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Sexual Health and Pleasure Education Hits College...
hiohmegan: The Study Sex College Tour Launches Second Year of Vital Sex Positive Education   This fall, students will once again swarm college campuses across the nation. Rigorous courses will give them a chance to learn about almost any subject, but one important topic is frequently missing in this conversation: sexuality. Megan Andelloux, also known as “Oh Megan,” is a certified sexologist...
Sep 22nd
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Sep 22nd
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fellinlovewithagrrl asked: YAY FOR THIS BLOG!!! also made totally 100 times more awesome by the picture of my boobs xxxx
Sep 22nd
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Sep 22nd
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Sep 12th
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Sep 11th
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Sep 11th
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Sep 11th
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Sep 10th
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“One of the most important tools we can give young people — boys and girls alike...”
– — The Paris Paradox: how sexualization replaces opportunity with obligation at Hugo Schwyzer (via psychologyoflife) YES (via sparksummit)
Sep 10th
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On non-consent.
dearcoketalk: I just heard something really fucked up, and I need my rage to be validated. During the school year a friend of mine took a drunk girl home from a bar and had sex with her. Later on that evening, he and his roommate switched, and his roommate proceeded to have sex with this girl, while she was passed out, without her knowing. My “friend” thought that story was hilarious, I am...
Sep 10th
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Sep 9th
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Sep 9th
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xdixon: last night i had a dream about consent it was awesome 
Sep 9th
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Sep 8th
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dicknailed: consent is sexy.
Sep 8th
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Sep 8th
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Sep 7th
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Sep 7th
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Sep 7th
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Sep 6th
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Sep 6th
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Some of my fave "100 Ways to Ask before you Act"...
roidyraw: Will my meat meet your Taco?… You have 206 bones in your body…wanna another? May I invade your baby cave? Im pitching a tent will you insert a rod in the slot for me? You know what would look good on you? Me. Wanna turn my software into hardware? ..am I going on a date with Mrs. Palmer and her 5 sisters Some of this shit was just SO corny, and lame..or just boring, but these I...
Sep 6th
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