November 2011
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modernmonkeys: On Sex Positive Feminism “Instead, sex-positivity is the belief that sex and sexiness are… okay.  It’s the belief that people shouldn’t be judged by the sex they have.  It’s the belief that consent matters and social norms do not.  It’s the belief that porn and erotica are valid media of expression (not that the current porn industry is...
Nov 1st
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October 2011
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“If sluttiness is what you like, what’s wrong with that? Why do we think being a...”
– Tom Ford (via mrgolightly)
Oct 31st
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Consent was defined as:
ozymandiasdethroned: Both partners are fully aware and knowledgeable about what will take place during a sexual encounter. Either partner feels comfortable ending the sexual encounter at any time. Neither partner is incapacitated (physically, emotionally, chemically, etc.) in any way that would hinder their ability to make an informed or conscious decision to engage in sexual activity. There...
Oct 31st
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“You know whats my favorite sex position? Mutual consent.”
– (via sleepwalkingforinsomniacs)
Oct 31st
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“Having sex that isn’t rape is like cooking food that isn’t poison. It’s the...”
– The Pervocracy: Beyond Not Rape (via goodconsentrules)
Oct 30th
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Oct 30th
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Oct 30th
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“If sluttiness is what you like, what’s wrong with that? Why do we think being a...”
– Tom Ford (via mrgolightly)
Oct 29th
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Oct 29th
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Oct 29th
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Oct 28th
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Oct 28th
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Oct 28th
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“Having sex that isn’t rape is like cooking food that isn’t poison. It’s the...”
– http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/ - “Beyond not rape.” (via cheveuxroux)
Oct 23rd
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LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX BABY
iamabutchsolo: LET’S TALK ABOUT RESPECTING BOUNDARIES LET’S TALK ABOUT HOW NECESSARY ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT CAN BE LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX
Oct 22nd
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Oct 22nd
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Oct 22nd
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Oct 21st
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CONSENT WORKSHOP RESOURCES!
queerlyfantastical: Learning Good Consent Zine: http://zinelibrary.info/learning-good-consent Let’s Talk About Consent Baby Zine: http://anarchalibrary.blogspot.com/2010/09/lets-talk-about-consent-baby-zine.html The Fantasy of Acceptable Non-Consent: Why the Female Sexual Submissive Scares Us (And Why She Shouldn’t)—this is the rad BDSM-oriented article I had...
Oct 21st
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Oct 21st
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FBI changes official definition of rape →
rainbowinyoursky: “In a major victory and update on Lori’s post from Monday, the FBI has voted to change the definition of rape so that all rapes are counted properly.”
Oct 20th
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Oct 16th
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Oct 16th
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Oct 15th
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Oct 15th
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Oct 15th
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also,
submissions? we take them.
Oct 14th
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Oct 14th
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Oct 14th
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dicknailed asked: is fifteen too young to be sexually active? Provided both parties consent and protection is used?
Oct 13th
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Oct 13th
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Oct 13th
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Participate in a (con)sensual Focus Group! →
(con)sensual is organizing three focus groups on campus to contribute to student-led research on the campaign’s language, reach, and approach to consent education. Participants will be provided free pizza for participating.  The three times are: - WED Oct 19, 3-6 PM - SAT Oct 22, 12-4 PM - SUN Oct 23, 12-4 PM WHAT IS A FOCUS GROUP? A structured discussion among 6-12 participants and a ...
Oct 13th
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Oct 13th
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“Sex is about energy, not the way bodies touch.”
– Annie Sprinkle (via vomit-heart)
Oct 12th
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Oct 12th
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Oct 12th
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Oct 11th
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Oct 11th
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Oct 11th
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Oct 10th
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Oct 10th
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Oct 10th
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Oct 9th
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“Every time I bat my false eyelashes, it’s a political statement.”
– RuPaul (via liltree)
Oct 9th
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Oct 9th
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Lesson 54: Always Obtain Consent
life101forpeople: Das Racist Relationship Advice: Whats the worst thing a girl ever did to you. from ladygunn magazine on Vimeo. No form of physical contact should ever come as a surprise— that includes penetration, touching, kissing, and any other way in which your parts might come into contact with other people’s parts.  Keep in mind that words can be non-consensual, too. Sexual harassment...
Oct 8th
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Oct 8th
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Yes, No, Maybe Checklist →
candyforthedead: “Clear, truthful and open communication is a must with partnered sex. It’s the best way to assure everyone is fully and freely consenting as well as physically and emotionally safe; to help sex and sexual relationships be as satisfying, positive and awesome as they can be. We can’t just know or guess what we or others want or need, like or dislike, are or are not okay with:...
Oct 8th
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“The culturally established “no means no” is too low a bar. Only yes means yes....”
– Emily Heist Moss The Good Men Project - You Can Get Laid Without Being a Jerk (via lexywagner)
Oct 7th
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